Posted by ttate on September 07, 1999 at 11:00:02:
In Reply to: SO confused....reoccuring lesbian cheating dream...... posted by Marie on September 04, 1999 at 04:40:04:
Your comment: I always feel guilty, seems to be the key to this dream.
You might have noticed that we have been working the shame concept in this conference lately.
What is the difference between shame and guilt? Shame is a deeply held belief that by nature you are inadequate
whereas guilt is an act for which you can atone.
In your dream you are in a 'hotel with glass wall' certainly a see through impersonal enviornoment.
It would seem, that since you are not 'out' that this dream is coaxing you to review your sexual identity, to make it more your own.
I don,t see the dream as being about a particular lover but more about your own personal relationship with your sexuality.
Dreams are teachers and reveal what we need to learn.